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What do you really want in life?
We often look for things that will make us happy and it’s too broad or general to ask yourself “what do I really want in life”.
Before we find out how to reach our dreams and understand what we want in life, we also need to figure out not only the WHAT, but also the WHY.
WHAT do we really want in life?
WHY do we want it?
Some people can easily say what they want and why they want it. Just like that.
But for some, they’re having a difficult time thinking about what they really want for themselves.
For those people, it’s always easier for them to think about others more than they think about themselves because it seems that they’re being selfish and they just simply don't believe that they deserve it.
The things that we frequently project to others thinking that “this is the best for them” may be the things that we didn’t know we wanted.
We are distracted by the noises around us,
We forget what’s truly in our hearts.
We do things that we think we want.
We try to reach them.
But…
The real question is…
Is it what we actually want?
Or is that what we thought we wanted?
I, myself, have had a hard time answering this question but I believe there is a way around it.
As the saying goes, “try and try until you succeed.”
It's a never-ending cycle of experimentation and trial and error.
You follow your heart's desire, walk the journey, and learn from your mistakes.
Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. Just don’t make the same mistake twice 😅
As you walk towards your path, answers will slowly come to you.
If you are one of those people that really don’t know what they want in life, only by trying different jobs/careers will you discover what you want to do, be, etc.
However, you may already have a vision of what you want, or you may believe you already have it and just need a little push.
How?
Associate yourself with people who have dreams and are dedicated to their goals.
If you can get involved with a group that has goals similar (or bigger than) yours, do that.
Don’t be afraid to join a group you don’t know. They didn’t know everyone there at the beginning either.
Get involved.
Don’t limit yourself with all the possibilities.
And most importantly…
Be the best person to understand yourself.
Hope you find this helpful.
Have an amazing day!
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